A Grandmother's Reflection on Thankfulness
As Coen’s caretaker, I often reflect on the changes in my life and the many things I am deeply thankful for. Each day reminds me of what truly matters, and this Thanksgiving, I want to share the blessings that fill my heart.
Cherishing the Everyday Moments
One of the sweetest joys of being a grandmother is getting to be part of my grandchildren’s daily lives. Taking the kids to school and picking them up a couple of times a week has become a treasured routine. These simple moments give me the chance to connect with Coen, Bea, and Townsend in such meaningful ways.
I love being able to say “yes” to their little heart’s desires usually it isn’t much at all, but it means everything to them. As a parent, I spent so much time saying, “No, we don’t have time... That’s too messy... Too far... Too expensive...” Now I understand why everyone says being a grandparent is more fun. I can slow down, be present, and embrace spontaneous adventures that turn into lifelong memories.
A big reason I can do this is because of my small business. It gives me flexibility and for those of you who support Beedlebug, I truly thank you.
Gratitude for Their Unique Abilities
I am especially grateful and honored to help care for Coen as he navigates his physical and cognitive challenges. Watching him grow, push forward, and shine despite obstacles fills me with tremendous hope. The fact that he is content with the simplest things. Daniel Tiger, a funny song that he will play over and over, he doesn’t tire of it or need much more. He doesn’t want toys or things. He likes to jump on his ball, play on his iPad, and loves Dairy Queen more than me!
Bea’s enthusiasm for just about anything makes my heart swell. She squeals with delight over the smallest things, reminding me to appreciate every little joy.
And then there’s Townsend wise beyond his years since he was about four. He is smart, funny, has the best giggle, and is the most loving big brother. Now that he’s big and strong, he’s also the official lifter of “all the heavy things” for my business and around the house. He is such a blessing.
A Legacy of Love and Kindness
Family is at the core of my gratitude. Being the youngest of six has been one of life’s gifts. I love my birth placement! As we’ve grown older, I see more and more how our parents’ values were woven into each of us. Their legacy of love, generosity, and kindness continues to shape our lives even though they are no longer with us.
One story I hold close is about my dad. He owned a fuel oil company in the Seattle area and often received frantic calls late at night even on holidays from families who had run out of fuel to heat their
homes. Young parents, single moms, people in hard seasons of life. He would leave our home out north, drive into town, and deliver fuel They were out of fuel because they didn’t have the money to fill the tank. He knew many of these families could not pay him back. But he could sleep at night knowing their children were warm. His heart for others was good, and he could sleep knowing these families were warm.
I grew up watching him start and sell businesses, make good and bad decisions, and navigate life with drive and zest. No wonder I wasn’t afraid to pursue a first-to-market invention in my late 50s. I once told him I would have an invention by the time I was 30. It took almost another 30 additional years, but I did it! Cheers, Dad. I’m the only one in our family that has taken the entrepreneurial route. I’m not sure what that says about me?
Embracing Change with Gratitude
Life is full of changes, and each one brings a new opportunity to be grateful. Coen’s miraculous story shifted my perspective and taught me what is truly important connection, presence, and the love we share daily.
Every hug, every giggle, every moment with my grandchildren reminds me of how fortunate we are. This Thanksgiving season is a reminder to embrace thankfulness in all its forms.
To those of you who have supported this little business I thank you
from the bottom of my heart.
Made with love—for one, to help many.
❤️❤️ Linda B ❤️❤️
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